definitiveme:

fierce-and-dangerous:

chubby2fit:

dietblog-and-tobeskinny:

Would you rather wear a bikni looking like this

OR

Would you rather eat those junk foods

OR

Be able to wear tight clothes without feeling awkward ?

Would you rather wear shorts looking like this..

OR

Like this?

AT THE END OF THE DAY ITS…

*sigh*

First off I give the first woman in the bikini major props for having the comfort of wearing a two piece. No she’s not a super skinny girl, but her confidence is shining through! You can be super skinny and still lack confidence, and zero confidence is less appealing than an overweight girl in a bikini. 

Also, eating a burger and fries from a fast food joint occasionally  (and five guys — the restaurant pictured — is actually a lot better than most because they use fresh potatoes and ingredients) isn’t going to make you become obese. I think we all remember Michael Phelps…

…yeah that NICE body, well you should see his diet. If you are fucking craving a burger and fries, eat a fucking burger and fries. It’s okay. You won’t shoot up 20, 10, 5, even a pound. If you step on the scale the next day sure it might be up, but I think we all know by know that’s water weight. And after a day back on track you can lose it all. 

Lastly, again that girl has confidence to wear those clothes. BEING SKINNY IS NOT THE ONLY THING THAT IS IMPORTANT IN LIFE!!!! Society has implemented these false ideas in our head. “You won’t succeed if you have fat on you.” “You won’t be pretty.” “No one will think highly of you” Yada yada yada. 

FUCK SOCIETY AND IT’S IMAGE!!!! 

If you are comfortable being overweight then that’s your life. I know so many beautiful, caring, loveably, sweet girls who do not fit societies image. 

Yes, I’m losing weight but for ME. Not to look good in a bikini or shorts. Because this post, I’m sorry if you’ve reblogged it or created it, is RUDE AND OFFENSIVE to those girls posted. They are human beings. I doubt they said “yeah use my picture to slam me and post to say ‘don’t look this this because ewww’” 

LOSE WEIGHT FOR YOURSELF, TO BE HEALTHY. If you are a chubby girl and proud, BE FUCKING PROUD! 

And you can bet money that when I lose my weight, that I will still be enjoying my burger and fries. :)

I can’t describe how much I love you. ^

^^ this was the worst fat shaming i think i have seen on tumblr for awhile.  Do it for yourself to feel comfortable in your own skin - not to attain some unrealistic never static societal ideal - especially if you arent willing to get off your arse and work for it.

Lose weight for you, not to look a certain way, but to feel good about yourself.